Facebook notifies others about my new added friend [duplicate]

Facebook is showing others my latest new added friends, saying something like "Aiwnas is now friends with X." Is it possible to stop Facebook from doing this? Or make it private for a customized list of my friends?

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Facebook loves to change placement and/or behaviour of settings. As of March 2013, @mark4o's answer is still correct, but the way of reaching the settings is as follows:

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answered Mar 28, 2013 at 6:52 That Brazilian Guy That Brazilian Guy 503 1 1 gold badge 5 5 silver badges 19 19 bronze badges Thanks, as of December 21, 2013 it is still the right answer :D Commented Dec 21, 2013 at 12:02 Thanks, as of January 2015 as well, it is right right answer.. 😊 Commented Jan 6, 2015 at 20:47

As of January 2020, you also have to click on the sub-filter "added friends" or the control will not show

Commented Jan 16, 2020 at 19:56

Click on your name at the top of the page, then Activity Log, and set the filter to Friends. Use the gear menu and uncheck the places where you do not want friend activity to appear.

Activity Log Friend Activity menu

answered Dec 2, 2012 at 13:57 5,915 1 1 gold badge 24 24 silver badges 31 31 bronze badges

The only way to stop facebook notifying your friends of your friendship changes is to make your friends list private. Go to your friends list page. At the top right section of the page click on Edit button. There you can choose who can see list of your friends (only me, custom, friends, everyone). Whoever can see list of your friends can find out whom you just became friends with.

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So if you need to hide friendship notifications from some of your friends you need to make a custom list.

answered Oct 29, 2012 at 10:12 Manoochehr Manoochehr 816 2 2 gold badges 11 11 silver badges 17 17 bronze badges Any explanations for a negative vote?! Commented Oct 30, 2012 at 7:23

Because it's incorrect. Who can see your friends list has no bearing on the update that shows up in the Ticker, which is public by default.